In this video, I speak about how to be free from people opinion. I will help you to understand:
– Why do you take into consideration the opinions of others?
– Why is it important to be free from the opinions of others?
– And finally, How to stop being affected by people opinion?
Hi this Aurore Mourette and today I’m going to speak about how to be free from people opinion. I will help you to understand:
- Why do you take into consideration the opinions of others?
- Why is it important to be free from the opinions of others?
- And finally, How to stop being affected by people opinion?
First of all, we are all faced today, people opinion, good or bad, about ourselves or about our work, our words, our body… etc… And for us, their opinions are very important for a lot of reasons:
- We want to have friends
- We want to be part of a community
- We want to satisfy our ego
- We don’t want to be an outcast
- We are looking for the validation from other people
- We want to be “normal”. Our self-esteem is not strong enough to have faith in ourselves!
- We want to avoid conflicts and so, we are becoming a people-Pleaser!
But I think, these reasons are not valuable for our life and to find happiness… These ones are just an answer to satisfy our ego, but not our inner self and our true purpose in life…
Secondly, why is it so important to free ourselves from people opinion?
- We are our own voice. If we listen and be guided by the opinions of others, we will not listen our own guidance system!
- The opinion of others is only the mirror of their own issues, preoccupations, concerns and that depends of lot of factors: the mood of the moment, the events of the day or from yesterday, their relationship with others, etc… Their opinions can change considerably during the day.
- By listening others, we will not know who we really are and we will become a total stranger to ourselves. Only, an illusion of what others think of us.
Finally, how to stop being affected by people opinion? I’m going to give you 6 advice:
- Start learning who you really are. Who are you? Take the time to get to know what are your values, what you like or dislike, what matters to you, what are your passions, what you want to do with your life. Getting to know yourself is fundamental, otherwise, you will run your life without GPS.
- A meditation is also a very good technique, to eliminate
- From your mind, the voices from others
- your ego
- And find who you really are. Because, above all, to achieve greatness in your life, you have to be an authentic person with its own values, a spiritual being who know who he is!
- Be focus on your passions and your mission on this Earth. When you finally discover your purpose in life: the opinions from others doesn’t matter anymore
- Reduce the power of influence of your ego. You are not what others think of you! People opinion is only an illusion. Be strong and have faith in yourself!
- Accept your differences. It’s a treasure and very ressourcefull!
- Don’t be afraid of conflicts. You are the only captain of your soul! Don’t let other people tell you what and how you have to do! Besides, you will earn respect from people for being authentic and true with yourself!
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